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"Anything that changes your values, changes your behavior" In the previous blog we began with talking about decision making, the importance of it and how hard it is at times. Later on we will discuss the different types of decision making skills and different types of decision makers. This will hopefully understand what kind of a decision maker you are and access if you need to make the any changes with your approach or even develop certain skills that will make you a better decision maker. Today we will continue on the quote we ended with the last time by Roy Disney  "Its not hard to make decisions if you know what your values are" . Values can be simply defined as principles or standards of behavior: one's judgement of what is important in life. What do you regard as of high value and worth to you? What are your principles? What standards of life do you live by? All these are what unconsciously guides the kind of choices you make and thereby the kind of li...

"Crying is allright, but eventually you will have to stop and make a decision" There comes a point in our lives where we have to make decisions. Decisions that will decide our future for this life and the life to come. Some decisions are more clearer than others, while others may live you in a state of deep self-doubt. You know that point when you begin to doubt if you even capable, strong enough, mature or wise enough to make the decision. Well I have been through those a couple of times in my life. Feeling like am in the middle of two dark paths in a forest and I have no idea which one will lead me back to the safe house. In fact I went through something like that no so long ago. It felt like am  having a brain freeze when am weighing my options. Considering the decision I had to make, I felt even more lost knowing that I had options. But which was the right one? “The problem, simply put, is that we cannot choose everything simultaneously. So we live in danger of ...